This theme inspired the title Band of Gold
First the gift of the diamond ring. ‘Oh! How wonderful, you’re engaged,’ chorus the girlie friends.
‘Well, you’re on your way now. Just the little band of gold to come,’ coos mother.
They spend days shopping for the perfect gown. Wedding presents arriving day by day. Enough towels to last a lifetime and a Chinese vase that will never see the light of day. But lots of useful dishes, pots and pans; some folks remembered their list.
The Day arrives. He slips the band of gold onto her finger, his gift of love.
Year one is the paper anniversary.
She got baby congratulation cards. He got a cigar.
Year two is cotton.
Hubby was being cautious, bought a high-neck nightie.
Come year three, its leather.
Money’s a bit short. A pair of new shoes would be nice.
Year four is fruit or flowers.
They doubled as an offering as he walked for the second time down the Maternity Ward.
Year five is wood.
The new garden shed was a place for him to hide.
Six, seven, eight and nine.
Passed in a flash with Beaver Cubs’ and Brownies’ camps.
Year ten is tin.
The chicken coop fell down. Frozen birds filled the freezer for months.
Eleven is steel.
This was a black time. The factory closed down.
Sexy twelve and thirteen quotes silk and lace.
Forget that! Teenage tantrums took their place.
Fourteen is ivory.
He searched until … A trio of elephants sits on the windowsill.
Fifteen years.
A beautiful crystal necklace. Where did the money come from?
Twenty years is China.
What can he come up with for that – maybe a porcelain spaniel – not this year.
Her precious has tickets for two, so they can walk hand-in-hand along the Great China Wall.